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i am blogging about the controversial sex scandal involving hayden kho and some famous personalities. This is just 1 of the thousands of opinions written on random blogs throughout the Local and some foreign blogosphere. Yes, this one is so damn famous that everyone who happens to know how to communicate knows about this stuff. Poor and rich, religious and the not-so, drug-free or dependents, everyone of em just happen to know about this one.

So what’s my take on this? Do i feel enraged about how immoral our society is becoming? Do I feel jealous why hayden got loads of babes while I got 0? Am i happy because i saw the video and somehow my desires got the best of me? Do i feel pity about the girls in the video? These are just some the questions we need to ask ourselves. For a minute you try to be honest and come up with a conclusion or reflect on the lessons you’ve learned regarding this issue.

ok so first thing. let me list some of the things i learned. some of my list are quite senseless thought but i just need to list it anyway.

1. make sure you know how hide personal files in your pc. luckily i’m an IT guy so this shouldn’t be a problem.
2. if you are a female, think twice before engaging in this act while you are not married. (if you are looking for a trustworthy male, just let me know. LOL )
3. earthly desires almost always gets to majority of human beings.
4. pre-marital sex is rampant in this *very* catholicized country.
5. I was correct when i thought before that the faces i see on tv are doing these things despite how good they project to be.
6. Humans are so damn interested in news events like this. I cant count how many times i was asked if i have a link for it to download. (Luckily, i dont ask anyone coz i have my way around the internet)
7. People who degrades sexual acts without proper reason are purely idiots.

thats the end of my list coz my brain paused for a while and i cant think of some better ideas.

Let me continue though, so whats my reaction on this one? We’ll first i wish i was hayden, LOL (purely kidding here!). Seriously, i hope i might NOT sound like a nagging hypocrite, but i really felt that we are approaching at a point where almost everyone of us is so influenced by what we see on TV that it clouds our way of thinking. Consider premarital sex, as a christian do you think its bad? Yes i do. Now, try to turn on your TV during afternoon and you will see teens or young adults, NOT YET MARRIED, filmed on the act of doing such things. So this is just one of the triggers. Now these scenes coupled by our biological needs and the result will be what? go figure. So why I am writing this? It’s because of  this(scandal) expose, I hope im wrong though, God knows how many more young ones did engage in premarital sex, they can easily fool themselves and say that if they(famouse ones) have done that then what’s the reason we cant. I honestly think that the media made it worst. fuck off media. oops. I didn’t mean that. I meant the tv media.

On the issue of whose the victim, i don’t think any of those caught on the videos are victims. The video clearly shows that the persons involve were enjoying it so its really unfair to label them as victims. So are there no victims? well in my opinion the victims are the viewers, the not-so-smart viewers, the young ones who cant think deep yet. Why? ready my previous paragraph. The ones who watched this video cant help themselves but be tempted and you and I know what that kind of temptation mean. I was tempted. Luckily im single and stuffs like this is not in my to-do list at least at present so im spared. phew. How about the ones who are in a relationship? The partners who keep thinking should we do this or should we wait for marriage? Do you honestly think by watching this films it will not add up to their pressure? Just think and rethink my friend.

woah. this one is getting long and im quite lazy to proofread my posts so expect major errors in this one. this is just a heads up though.

what about you? yes you, the one who is reading this. I might have offended you but it doesn’t matter. Your choice is alright to me as long as it doesn’t bother anyone. if you have engage in this acts, we’ll thats cool, if not then that’s cool too, at the end of the day we believe in different things and we live on what we believe.

I just wrote this one down so that maybe, just maybe someone out there might be questioning his conscience should I do this or should I not, and when he/she by twist of fate happen to read this it will help him/her decide the right thing to do.

My advice is just read the bible and pray and if that doesn’t help(I doubt it) remember God made weed to grow abundantly in earth now its up to you to use it right.